Regan
Smarty Pants Pervert
Reged: May 16 2007
Posts: 1042
Loc: NYC
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Hi, scottie-
Have you noticed over the course of your sessioning experience that particular types of scenes have different sorts of endings?
-Regan
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scottie
Pervy
Reged: May 16 2007
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I can't really answer that since my interests have stayed pretty much the same over the years - bondage, corporal and CBT/NT. But I have experienced this all over the United States and in several countries in Europe. Actually "happy dancing" in the context of my scene is somewhat less frequent in Europe than in the U.S (although still common). I think that would be contrary to most people's expectations.
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needtoserve
Cool New Kid
Reged: Nov 15 2007
Posts: 44
Loc: NYC
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The desire to dance and the desire for her control makes for a good mesh. She is enjoying it also. Through words both spoken and unspoken we seem to be in agreement that the desire to dance should be controlled though not starved out altogether. It certainly makes for energy exchange between play and I am quite compliant during play.
It deepens the surrender in ways. The sessions seem to be very, very intense and I become quite willing to play however it is that Mistress Katya wants to.
ps. If you ever want to hear some ecstatic screams based on desire to dance, try some light gauge sounds after 40 or 50 days of chastity.
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She's always been so hard to figure out, yeah she always likes to leave me with a shadow of a doubt
Edited by needtoserve (Sat Jun 28 2008 04:30 PM)
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mrpotatohead
Kinky Enthusiast
Reged: Jul 02 2007
Posts: 351
Loc: N. Virginia (with my mind some...
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I look forward to and enjoy the many aspects and nuances of a session. But Mr. Happy has to be patient and wait until he gets back to the hotel to do his thing. Then he *really* gets into it..
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"And I only get my rocks off while I'm dreaming, only get them off when I'm sleeping.."
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Regan
Smarty Pants Pervert
Reged: May 16 2007
Posts: 1042
Loc: NYC
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Very good point. There are many different approaches to BDSM, and there is not a black and white/right and wrong rule set; just what perspectives are shared by the participants.
I like to think I am clear about how I perceive the scene and enjoy sessions, but it appears I need to be even moreso for some people and in some situations. If it seems in advance our perspectives are maybe too divergent, I can recommend a dominant who is better suited. That is much preferable to disappointment from mis-met expectations.
-Regan
No, mis-met is not a word. I just made it up.
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